The problem with nigerian pastors and imams

The problem with Ministers

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I write this submission with a lot of prejudice, some might even say the views being put forward today are distorted
because of my own experience, and therefore unreliable. I humbly disagree. I believe you can only write what you know. You can only be sure of what you have seen,touched, felt, tasted and experienced.
And I dare to say ...God Almighty is my witness .. and I humbly submit myself to his judgement if anything I write here is not the truth.I humbly beg of you not to judge me yet,
until you have let me finish putting my case before you.
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I am the first born son of two moderately popular ministers in Lagos and i must write about the hell it is! I was going to write that it is a absolute hell,but decided to change it , because I really
would be lying . Why? Because despite all the pain i go through , somehow I still find myself forbearing it.Then why am I writing this , you may ask . I need to. I have to.I need to before I go crazy. I need to before my fantacies of getting news of their death takes
root in my heart. I am doing all I can not to go crazy!

My mother is the most religious, pious, evangelistic, zealous person i know, yet I hate almost everything about her. Yes ...I used the word hate! I am tired of this hypocrisy! I am tired of her being adored
by the whole world of being this super spiritual person , yet her own home is a hellhole! Yes ! A hellhole! My only regret is that it never occured to me to have a reality show of mommas life! Most
people would be severly dissappointed.  A never ending sespool of arguments, religious bullying, cursing, manipulation , emotional torture and religious arrogance.
Believe me when i say word cannot quantify the terrible state of our home. And who is to blame for all this? Me! Thats what mum and dad would say. Basically,really , thats what they will say. They believe i started
the rebellion that tore apart their home...the new thing daddy insinuates now is that i am the reason his church wont grow.LOL. You Know my response to this...look at their lifes. Daddys church is over 20 years old
..and there is only one graduate in his church. Even that one is beginning to skip services. Also , did i mention that there are only 2 regular non family members of the church as at 22/12/2014. I am not happy about this
...i am just trying to help you see that maybe this thing aint my fault after all. I will go into that whole episode some other time. ....to be continued

You see, the problem with the Nigerian society is that we usually wait for child abuse to get extreme before even admitting it is child abuse. We wait for the
abused child to lose his/her mind , chop off the abusers head, slice the body and calmly pack it in a bag before we start shouting. It is our way in nigerian
society to always assume the child is the bad one before even listening to the matter.The truth is ... the Nigerian child usually has to fend for him/herself
when it comes to abuse. What have I done wrong to be called bad. I passed all my exams like I was asked to, I had no girlfriends until i left university as i was taught.
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I dont drink. I dont smoke.I love church. I am born Again(like they want) And yes ... I have never been with a woman. Yet ..all this ..and still ..as far as they are concerned ,
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